Life after Marriage!
I have no clue about why suddenly after 2 years
of my marriage life, I created this blog title. What I'm going to write about??
Writing is something which I love. Its just all about scribbling (crazy
thoughts & happenings) whatever comes to your mind, So I am just using this
space to share my thoughts.
Lets get back to the title of the post.. I really can’t stick to the title, πWell, being a married woman, I hold certain responsibilities of taking care of my " little family". I cannot be playful like before. I have to be little serious.ππππ ha...ha...haa...lolz....I can never be serious...I'll be the same happy, fun loving, crazy little girl. More than that.. I just love myselfππ
"Pamper Yourself when you are not in a good mood"
(Trust me, you can see the changeπ)
I feel like I have grown up old now..lol..even though my heart is not accepting itπ... Things change slowly...., people start calling you as ‘akka’,'aunty',‘sis’,’woman’.. Oooops ! πBut now I am slowly getting used to it. After wedding, things haven’t changed much. Except that I have started cooking full time now and there is a person sharing my bedroom !
Thanks to Sakthi for accepting as I am.... the crazy, playful & most importantly adventurous little girl. 2 Years down... & still it hasn't sunk our minds that are we really married ?? ππ After all wedding is just a part of life π
Alright!! Immediately ... After the wedding, we were in Coimbatore & Chennai for nearly 1 week. After our post wedding shoot, all these days we were invited by friends and relatives.. Due to time constraint, we couldn't go out much for lunch/dinner at relatives place . We had to fulfil few rituals by visiting temple.. Couldn't spend US time (quality time) much..Next thing was Packing!!!! God.. Somehow we were done with it....
There was one more thing bothering us - Will I be able to travel with him to Netherlands? Since Sakthi (My husband) has booked a ticket for 10th June 2017 due to my improper initial expansion in passport..... & Ticket was booked with my full name..π. Very difficult task ... I just kept praying till boarding..... I knew that my mom would cry while leaving for the airport.... After all, I am their only child & she is always used to my naughtiness all these 24 years.. Poor mumma...! I definitely missed her a lot... Usually I don't like to cry when people are around.. Especially in front of my parents..I was sure of my dad that he won't be crying (He doesn't express much) but definitely he's going to miss me. I know I am his life ...and he is very emotional when it comes to me. π
It was a very emotional & touching moment for me. Leaving mom & dad alone and going to a far unknown place for the first time. Anyways, Sakthi is going to be with me!! That was my only console.. Somehow, I controlled my tears. "No...., Sukanya You shouldn't cry"
We finally reached airport, Baggage was fine & within the limit. Security check was over...We had a connecting flight from Chennai - Mumbai - Istanbul - Amsterdam.. I was travelling for the first time by flight. π After reaching Mumbai we had a 7 hrs transit time till Istanbul ...Such a beautiful airport that was! I was freezing badly as there was minus degree temperature.I am not used to such cold weather. So many Sleepless transits & connecting flight to Amsterdam.. I was really excited & awaiting to see the house which Sakthi has arranged for us. We stepped in, with our right legs.. Like in movies .. holding hands...❤️❤️ππ
Amsterdam is really lively & such beautiful place , visual treat to our eyes!! Clean city roads, definitely it is one of the most beautiful romantic tourist spot in Europe..
Our home is a shared accommodation but a cute fully furnished 3BHK white flat with a brown door. Sakthi gave me full freedom to arrange according to my taste..Nice interiors.. we added few cute things according to our likes.
"Pamper Yourself when you are not in a good mood"
(Trust me, you can see the changeπ)
I feel like I have grown up old now..lol..even though my heart is not accepting itπ... Things change slowly...., people start calling you as ‘akka’,'aunty',‘sis’,’woman’.. Oooops ! πBut now I am slowly getting used to it. After wedding, things haven’t changed much. Except that I have started cooking full time now and there is a person sharing my bedroom !
Thanks to Sakthi for accepting as I am.... the crazy, playful & most importantly adventurous little girl. 2 Years down... & still it hasn't sunk our minds that are we really married ?? ππ After all wedding is just a part of life π
Alright!! Immediately ... After the wedding, we were in Coimbatore & Chennai for nearly 1 week. After our post wedding shoot, all these days we were invited by friends and relatives.. Due to time constraint, we couldn't go out much for lunch/dinner at relatives place . We had to fulfil few rituals by visiting temple.. Couldn't spend US time (quality time) much..Next thing was Packing!!!! God.. Somehow we were done with it....
There was one more thing bothering us - Will I be able to travel with him to Netherlands? Since Sakthi (My husband) has booked a ticket for 10th June 2017 due to my improper initial expansion in passport..... & Ticket was booked with my full name..π. Very difficult task ... I just kept praying till boarding..... I knew that my mom would cry while leaving for the airport.... After all, I am their only child & she is always used to my naughtiness all these 24 years.. Poor mumma...! I definitely missed her a lot... Usually I don't like to cry when people are around.. Especially in front of my parents..I was sure of my dad that he won't be crying (He doesn't express much) but definitely he's going to miss me. I know I am his life ...and he is very emotional when it comes to me. π
It was a very emotional & touching moment for me. Leaving mom & dad alone and going to a far unknown place for the first time. Anyways, Sakthi is going to be with me!! That was my only console.. Somehow, I controlled my tears. "No...., Sukanya You shouldn't cry"
We finally reached airport, Baggage was fine & within the limit. Security check was over...We had a connecting flight from Chennai - Mumbai - Istanbul - Amsterdam.. I was travelling for the first time by flight. π After reaching Mumbai we had a 7 hrs transit time till Istanbul ...Such a beautiful airport that was! I was freezing badly as there was minus degree temperature.I am not used to such cold weather. So many Sleepless transits & connecting flight to Amsterdam.. I was really excited & awaiting to see the house which Sakthi has arranged for us. We stepped in, with our right legs.. Like in movies .. holding hands...❤️❤️ππ
Amsterdam is really lively & such beautiful place , visual treat to our eyes!! Clean city roads, definitely it is one of the most beautiful romantic tourist spot in Europe..
Our home is a shared accommodation but a cute fully furnished 3BHK white flat with a brown door. Sakthi gave me full freedom to arrange according to my taste..Nice interiors.. we added few cute things according to our likes.
Cooking plays a vital role in my life now. No I realize what difficulties my mom faces when she wakes up early, prepares breakfast, lunch, dinner & all other household chores and still be smiling. I am really sorry for not realizing all your efforts ma. Hats off!! for doing all this for over 27 years now. So All I think now is, What to prepare for lunch/dinner. What veggies/groceries should I buy. All these totally disappears when Sakthi tastes my cooking and says:
“Superb cooking...Baby!”
Ahhh..ππ.. That's all I want...I am maintaing a diary for recording all expenses and to note down few important things. Typical house wife thingππ. But I don’t want to be one. I was always Independent and still want to be ππ ! Used to work while doing my M.B.A & take care of my own expenses. I want to gift Sakthi and our parents with something with the money I earn. Waiting for that day ! As of now, I am loving being dependent! A different experience indeed!
Wonderful. Knowing ones responsibility shows maturity. It will surely take u to a different level altogether.
ReplyDeleteYeah definitely ☺️ Marriage shouldn't bring drastic change in one's life.. things should change slowly π
DeleteThat's so sweet moment.. I also want something from my life but every one knows things are happened in his way and want to tell you always you are my inspiration.. Love you dear πππππ.. God bless all of you.. Miss you ππ. Awaiting for surprise ππ
ReplyDeleteThanks Shikha ☺️
DeleteSimply mind-blowing sissy... Love youπππ
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